11 Jan 2003, Slim's, San Francisco, CA, USA


After sharing an early breakfast, all four of us left for San Francisco. Chelsea had kindly agreed to taking me sightseeing and of course Pier 39 and Fisherman’s Wharf were number 1 on my list.

I was lucky enough to spend about an hour on Pier 39 watching the Sea Lions do their thing which is an amazingly magical sight for anyone of any age or walk in life but I was doubly blessed by being able to share that experience with two of the most amazing people I know, Doug and Chelsea. Then us girls went off to check out the shops and wander around at our leisure, chatting like sisters or at the very least, close cousin’s (no, not the kissing kind :), enjoying an afternoon of pure relaxation. We tried unsuccessfully to hook up with Elinor and Anne at Pier 39 but alas, it was not to be.

The Wharf and Pier were everything and more of what I imagined them to be, and Chelsea, the only regret I truly have is that I didn’t try harder to get you to sing with that jazzy group we saw on the way to Fisherman’s Wharf. I truly regret that. We lunched at Scoma’s, which was an experience in itself. White tuxedoed waiters pampering us, a seafood salad that was as big as my head (not my ego though :) and the unbelievable company of Chelsea who’s personality would brighten any room.

We all met later on at the Marriott Sports Bar and Grill where our illustrious Doug looked right at home. I met Chuck’s lovely wife Sue and we all had the opportunity to regroup, catch up on daily doings and then off we went to Slims.

The lineup at Slims was vastly different from the Catalyst. The energy level was edgier and I suppose the Staff could sense this edge and worked hard at trying to keep everyone in line, confiscating anything that did not belong on a public sidewalk and keeping the walkway clear of us human debris. I had the pleasure of meeting Scott, Louise, Vic, Elinor, Anne and Stu. Plus the list members that I had met the previous day were all in attendance so we were one very happy, chatty, excited group. Upon entering Slims I realized it was a more intimate setting than the Catalyst, the stage was better proportioned for viewing and now that I knew what to expect on some levels I was even more excited than the previous night.

The opening act was an incredible band, which if the cd is to be believed is named Eric McFadden. Definitely had everyone warmed up and grooving to his Latin sound.

Then the expectant hush once everyone knew the Dixie Dregs were going to start in minutes. It was so packed in Slims that you did not have room to move your arms and were surrounded front, left, right and behind by everyone pressing in to get closer to the stage. That was a little unsettling when you can feel the mood being way edgier than at the Catalyst but then once again, the lights and sound exploded and there they were, playing, smiling and just being amazing yet again and the whole room settled into this dreamy, individual state of intense listening. One thing I noticed at these “gigs” is how little everyone moved around and almost no one was talking, other than to yell, clap, scream and whistle at the end of every song. It is such a deep, personal experience that it stops being a show and actually becomes something absorbed into each person, in his or her own unique way.

I was truly amazed again at the dynamics of the whole group though when Steve gets going over his solo’s, there is no doubt as to who the master of his craft is. I saw some guy’s and gals that were packed like sardines into this venue and you knew that we were all there to see this amazing group and I could feel the energy switch to this solemn, awestruck, truly appreciative crowd, myself included.

After the first encore song, I stepped out with Sue for a breath of fresh air and realized I had hit sensory overload. I had about 5 hours sleep in almost 44 hours, had seen two amazing opening acts in as many day’s, had met the kindest, most warmhearted folks one could wish for, visited places I had only read about and seen Steve and the Dregs create music that mere words are insufficient and it was done less than four feet from myself. I literally had no room in my heart and mind for more.

I did not have the opportunity to say good-bye and to thank the list members for being there and for being the wonderful, generous folks they proved to be and how much this weekend meant to me on so many levels.

The memories of my very first Dregs concerts, meeting my first set of list members and seeing a small corner of California is indelibly imprinted on my mind.

Thank you one and all!!!

Lisa L. Jay